• Jul
  • 13
  • 2008
  • 12:29 PM

Remembering Bobby Murcer

By: Ray Pellecchia
File Under: Miscellaneous


Bobby Murcer with his wife Kay (Photo: amNewYork.com)

I went to a gathering at a neighbor's house yesterday afternoon and missed the end of the Yankee game. When I got home I went online to see how the game finished up, and saw the news that Bobby Murcer had died. My sincere prayers and condolences go out to his family and friends.

Bobby was my boyhood idol when he was a player and my touchstone to Yankee tradition and class when he was a broadcaster. I had the privilege to meet him once, when he brought some of his childhood friends from Oklahoma to visit NYSE, as recounted in this post. I had the honor of meeting them at the door, and I remember being completely awestruck when I shook his hand. "Nice to meet you, Mr. Murcer," was all I could stammer out. "Please, just call me Bobby," he said with a big smile, instantly putting me at ease. I think his real greatness was in exactly that regular-guy connection he had with people.

Not that he hadn't done great things in his career. For years and years he was an excellent player, the best guy on Yankee teams that otherwise were anything but excellent. He was exciting to watch -- fast as a colt, good power, sure center fielder. He was an All-Star in both leagues, once hit .331, hit 252 lifetime homers, and once hit four consecutive homers over the course of a double-header I remember listening to on a little transistor radio.

And of course, there was 6 Aug. 1979, the day of the funeral of his friend and Yankee captain Thurman Munson, who had died when his small plane crashed. The entire team attended the service, where Lou Piniella and Bobby gave eulogies, then flew back to New York to play Baltimore that night. Bobby hit a three-run homer and a walkoff, two-run single in the ninth inning to knock in all five runs in a 5-4 comeback win. What accounts for the ability to do such things in such situations, I wonder -- adrenaline? Luck? God? All I know is that it was something special, and it always shone around Bobby Murcer.

The day he was at NYSE, Gordon Charlop, one of our brokers, walked Bobby and his friends around the trading floor. People stopped what they were doing to come over and talk with him. They got his autograph, they asked him how the Scooter was doing, what did he think of the Yanks' chances for the playoffs, did he remember the time when this or that happened. More frequently than anything else, I heard people thank him, for being a player and announcer they enjoyed, for always conducting himself well. He touched so many people, in so many different ways. Bobby was a modest man and you could tell he appreciated the outpouring of affection.

The following Christmas Eve we read the news that Bobby had brain cancer. Ever since, we have followed his battle with the disease. His comeback to the Stadium after his surgery. His stated goal of being at Opening Day at the new Stadium next year (I'm sure he indeed will be there). And most notably, the news reports of his trading letters and phone calls with others battling cancer, sharing his experiences, affirming theirs, gently urging them to have faith and hope. That he should think of others at such a difficult time for him seemed completely in character.

I looked up to Bobby when I was a kid, and even more so as an adult. It is a rare person who lives up to what you imagine them to be, and more. For that, I thank you, Bobby Murcer.

Comments

Ray, you don't have to post this on Exchanges, but I wanted to tell you that I read your entry about Bobby Murcer and was quite touched by it. He was a real Yankee, a tremendous asset for baseball, a fun icon of the game (remember his spitting on a ball before throwing it to Gaylord Perry, and Perry retaliating by having a mutual friend put grease on his hand prior to shaking Bobby's hand, and saying that Gaylord says hello)...

He was an example of what ballplayers should be: respectable, role model, approachable, and plain old nice. Also, a heck of a player! I hope it's okay with you, I added a link to your blog post in his Wikipedia entry.

Thanks for taking time out to write such a nice piece about him.

Barry

by Barry on July 14, 2008 11:01 AM

When Bobby first arrived in the majors, many sportscasters believed him "the next Mickey Mantle," and it was admittedly disappointing when he didn't work out so. He was nevertheless a very good ballplayer and a roundly beloved sports figure who unarguably matched Mantle in both heart and love of the game. It's rather ironic the these men died at almost precisely the same age, both prematurely taken by ever-dreaded cancer. And indeed Bob followed yet another great Oklahoman in death, hallowed gridiron Sooner Jack Mildren, who similarly succumbed to cancer earlier this year. All three individuals are sterling testaments to the superb quality of athletes perennially produced within the state of Oklahoma.

by Mark Leibold on July 14, 2008 1:56 PM

The baseball orginization and the world lost an amazing human being.

Bobby, was my favorite yankee of all time. I remember sitting in my living room when I was a kid watching the game that they played after buyring Thurman Munson, and that was Bobby's game. He was the game. It was so emotional then, and still is...

I met Bobby when I was about 16 years old (26 years ago) and I will never forget it. He was a kind and real person He didn't act like some "superstar" just like the person walking beside you down the street. He was my idol, like Mickey Mantle was my mother's idol.

It was Saturday afternoon and I was in Little Italy with my family having an early dinner, and the restaurant had the yankee game on with the sound off and my cell rang..it was my mother and she said to me, "Hunny, I have to tell you something...Bobby Murrcer died." I said "What?" I was silent.. My heart felt like it dropped into the pit of my stomach. I then looked up at the TV and the caption was reading about Bobby's death. I felt such a loss.

The Yankee's and the world lost an amazing man. My heart and sympathy goes out to Bobby's wife Kay and their family.

REST IN PEACE BOBBY MURCER...WE WILL NEVER FORGET.

by Debbie on July 16, 2008 10:30 AM


Dear Sirs,
As a pre-teen I remember Bobby M. teasing the Tiger fans in the old Tiger Stadium with tossing a baseball out by the left center field wall. Year 1973 not COOL!

by wj nagy on September 15, 2008 4:54 PM

Way to go Ray...a wonderful essay on a True Yankee!
Cheers, Robin

by Robin Verhose on September 15, 2008 9:41 PM

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